Hi Jeanette! Hopefully I can offer some suggestions, as I'm so glad our spa journey is over! Wow, can that keep you busy. We kept flitting back and forth between manufacturers and spa features, because they all offer their own "unique" options so that they can call them unique. It's not really comparing apples to apples, unfortunately, which would be so much easier. Being so far from a dealer, though, be sure to find out how service is performed, including trip fees if any, etc, and how long it will take to get someone out to you. Also, find out if there will be an initial delivery fee since you're so far out.
Also, beware as you're reading reviews because when you make such a large purchase, you really want to justify that it was money well-spent! So, honestly, all of us with opinions--even though they are true--may be a little biased toward what we chose. At the same time, we (unless you're a dealer) have nothing to gain from sharing our opinions.
OK, we decided on the Arctic Frontier, Signature Package, with the black Microban shell, natural cedar cabinet, 72" 2-tier steps, Sand-colored cover, exotic jet package, BaquaSpa kit (chemical-free products), and Deluxe Northern Lights. I didn't worry about this because I knew they were included, but I think the Forever Floor is standard (I've read this on a couple sellers' websites) and I think it's the same for the TruGuard Heater and the Polar Cover Upgrade. All the features are listed on the invoice with price amounts, and honestly, I think one-third of them are either shipped standard or assumed as part of the purchase, but they list them because it looks like you're getting more of a savings. I don't like this, but I noticed most of the companies seemed to do this. We skipped the ozone options, because they don't seem very useful. We also skipped the packages with the air (although I like how the tubs look with all those additional black jets!), as even our dealer felt it was sort of a waste of money. I've read reviews to that effect as well. The CD player seemed ridiculously high ($2000-2500!), although the way it's set to work seems really cool (AquaTremor, so you feel the music through the waves).
The pricing seemed similar to the high-end spas, although we had disregarded the Sundance, D1, Hot Spring, and a couple others based on price, because we *thought* we were going with the Bullfrog 451, and were just doing sort of an obligatory look at the competition to make ourselves feel better about the Bullfrog. Once we opened our eyes to the competition, we re-evaluated what we were getting for the price. That was actually more towards the end, prior to the Arctic. What sold us on the Arctic was really the spa configuration. At the time, we loved the dual lounger (new for 2005), because we knew we wanted a lounger and everyone else (in our price range) we saw only offered a single lounger. The Arctic allowed for two people to comfortably lay in about the same space, so four people can very, very comfortably be in there at once. The dual lounger will probably host a "couple", we figure, so it's okay that they touch (and they will). More on the dual lounger later. So, regarding the price, they are considered one of the higher-end spas and you do get what you pay for. I don't feel it was overpriced for what we got, although it was more than we planned on spending. Our dealer's papers show the base Frontier Signature package as $8500, but spas and accessories, etc., are negotiable, and you should hopefully be able to get everything, including tax, for at least $1000 less. I would work towards something like that anyway.
It is so attractive. When we first started looking, we were really turned off of the "maintenance-free" cabinets for all but a couple companies (can't remember which ones), which had ones that looked nearly identical to wood. It was so easy to re-stain this Arctic (like I said, I got to watch them do it). That's the good thing about cedar: it's a high quality wood, resistant to bugs, and a restraining can bring a very dull finish (if you didn't maintain it) right back to new. Plus, we can build our accessories in the backyard with the same wood and have it all match together nicely. The plastics used in the other cabinets are still susceptible to sunlight fading and discoloration over time, which warranties likely won't cover because that's considered regular wear and tear. I don't like the fading in even the new composite Terex decking I've seen, and I thought I'd originally love that.
Some other things I really like about my Arctic:
- The small jets are $12 and the large jets are $15 to replace. This means that at any time we can replace any single jet with exactly the force/direction/motion jet that we like anywhere in the tub.
- The areas where new jets can be installed in the tub are already in place, so we know exactly what can go where (big vs. small jet openings). They will come out and install them at any time and work out a deal according to how many additions you want. Plus, these slight "indents" help with more to hold onto while you're soaking.
- I absolutely love the waterfall. It flows evenly over the filter area and is illuminated by a light. It sounds awesome and is placed well.
- You can have the light on without any pump running, so it's completely silent. Several companies couldn't do that, including Bullfrog, and my husband likes to just sit there in silence.
- There is an empty circuit since we didn't get the Therapy Air jets, and you can buy a harness from them directly ($15, haven't gotten ours yet, wonder if Home Depot has it) to hook up anything--extra outdoor lighting, a second control panel that could be mounted inside the house, possibly a stereo setup, etc.
- Every jet can be easily adjusted for water power (almost a little too easy), and many of them can be rotated 360°. They pop in and out very easily as well, once you know how to do it.
- There's a 3-hook towel/robe holder attached to the frame of the cover lifter (this may be standard for other spas, not sure).
What I don't like about my Arctic:
- The dual lounger, sort of--we actually really like this, but to further explain: it's not as exciting as we were thinking. For instance, one lounger I love, mostly because I'm short (5'2") and it's a more comfortable position for me. We haven't had any tall people over yet, though, and I'm anxious to find out if they like the other lounger better. I noticed this with other loungers, too, so it's not just the Arctic. Most of the tubs we sat in were for taller people (like maybe 5'8"is). (This is one area that the Bullfrog might have been better, at least model 451, because it was so small. In the end, though, we felt it would be fine for 2 people, but when you're paying for a "4-5 person" spa (so they say), fitting only two comfortably would be a huge waste of money.) We will probably change out a few of the Arctic jets eventually, and I know this will add to the effectiveness for us (we're both shorter). I wish there was an area to hold onto within the tub like the other seats have. Not a big deal, but it would be nice.
- I wish there were more flat, protected surfaces. We'll be building an area around the spa eventually. We don't care, but there's no room for extra-large-based cups, just mostly cans or bottles.
What to get for sure with your spa:
- Cover lifter. This is mandatory in my opinion.
- A cool-down seat. Ours has two, and we're already loving this. Some spa companies said to just sit on the shell top, which you can do, too, but when it's even 50° out (let alone freezing), I don't want to get out of the tub THAT much just to cool down for a few minutes.
- Consider the Microbar finish (usually a price upgrade) in whatever you choose. We thought we only wanted the lighter, satiny finishes because the lights would look cooler, but I read a lot and talked to dealers about them, and it sounds like they're much harder to clean. Plus, you do need to worry about jewelry more than the textured finishes.
- Make sure there's a really thick, tapered cover and try for a bottom base that's anything but wood.
We've only had the tub a week, and it will take time to get used to. It's also our very first spa. Let me know if this is helpful. Sorry for this turning out ridiculously long (or if you're reading this for the Bullfrog, which I can also comment on!)

) so I'll wait and see what you think or if there's more questions. By the way, the Arctic DVD is very cheesy, although it does show some good pictures from the factory and has lots of features discussed. The Bullfrog DVD was cheesy, too--maybe it's an industry thing!--and focused too much on the JetPaks (of course, that's their main selling point). Those are the only two DVDs we received from companies we visited.
Best of luck in your search in the meantime!